The holidays are full of annual events, parties, gifts, decorating and more. Sure, it's all in good fun, but sometimes you spend so much time doing those activities that you have no time left for yourself. Here are some easy ways to get back some sanity during the holidays.

1. Shop via phone or catalog so you don't have to stand in line at the store. Many merchants offer free shipping.
2. Make your home festive by inviting friends or family over for a decorating party. That way, it can all be done in one day, and you can visit with people at the same time.
3. Instead of baking 20 different types of holiday cookies, ask each family member for his or her favorite kind and make those.
4. Sign and address holiday cards in advance. Make your life even easier by using a computer database to print addresses on envelopes. You can add a personal note when you are ready to mail them.
5. Instead of hosting one gathering of your childhood friends, another of your work friends and yet another of your husband's friends, combine groups. While it will be a larger gathering, you'll only have to entertain once. And don't feel the need to whip up a three- course homemade feast. Make it easy on yourself by catering the party or making it a potluck.
6. Don't spend hours cleaning your house from head to toe. Hire a cleaning person. It's an expense that's well worth it!
7. Set a limit on the number of holiday invitations you accept. If you feel badly about declining, offer to help the hosts set up before or clean up after.
8. It's okay to take a year off from flying to visit relatives and family. And it's also okay to pass on sending out holiday cards this year.
9. Keep the focus on the people at the event, not what kind of food you serve. It's okay to serve one kind of cookie, one plate of cheese and crackers, and basic beverages. As long as your guests have something to eat and drink, they'll be smiling!
10. If someone offers to bring food to your holiday party, don't be a martyr. Say yes! Make a short list of items that are nonperishable and portable (like bottled soda or rolls) and assign a guest to bring them when asked.

   Keep the spirit of the season in mind at all times. The holidays aren't a race to see who buys their presents first or who makes the best cookies. Do the best you can, and enjoy.